My mom is 85, still lives in her mobile home, is frail and falling more often lately, and is really resisting all help.I live 15 miles and work 35 miles from her. My nephew has lived with her for a few years, but is reaching the end of HIS rope because she can be really snippy. I have asked her repeatedly to move in with my family for every reason, including my own peace of mind, but she just doesn't want to move. I think she is struggling with the loss of control (she has always been hugely controlling), and I am trying to work around this. She would NEVER consider going to assisted living or, heaven forbid, a nursing home. We are looking into home nursing care a few hours a day. Does anyone have any other suggestions?