She refuses to move to a home and is living in a 3 bedroom house alone and states she is not ready to move. She is 88 years of age and lost her 2nd husband 5 months ago. She is getting aggressive with all her siblings when offered assistance, never agrees with anything said to her, loses her belongings (purse, keys, papers, etc...) and accuses someone of stealing them. She is quite spunky but a small woman of 93 pounds and we all fear that she will fall or get hurt and no one will know unless someone goes to see her. (We all live in other cities leaving no one there with her). She is not friendly with the neighbors and has no friends that come to visit her. Resents the idea of someone coming in to assist her and will not go into a home. She is petrified to be alone at night and prays for her safety every night. Has stated that someone was standing at the bottom of her bed once and another time someone outside her window whistling. One sibling has been assigned to her financial records, etc. and was appointed executer for her affairs when the time comes, yet another sibling appears to be coaching Mom with bad thoughts about all of the other siblings (there are 6 children) and trying to get into her money already. Can we get someone to monitor her finances just as a C.Y.A. and so that if the "coach" should get her hands into Mom's affairs, it will be seen? So this is two pleas for help: getting Mom out of the house and financial monitoring!