Any advice on how to get your loved one to become more hygiene focused? My mother has not taken a shower for many months. I only give her bird baths because she is frightened she will fall in the bathtub. I do have a chair that will fit in the tub but wouldn't you know it...her stubbornness and refusals to sit in the chair inside the bath tub are continual. My other family member has asked me to give her a bath because he noticed a musty smell on her skin. Any advice?