My mom refuses to take a shower or change her clothes. She can't always make it to the bathroom. Her legs are disgusting - dead skin, feces and very enlarged (probably congestive heart failure). The smell is overwhelming. Her legs are literally black due to the dirt/feces/dead skin. She refuses to see a doctor or let anyone in her house (besides myself and my two sisters). We bring her food and clean her house for her. My sisters and I don't know what to do - we ask/plead/suggest/rationalize about the shower. About six months my oldest sister and I gave her a shower. She literally screamed at us - such a horrible situation. My sisters and I are worried when God takes her, can we be held responsible for not providing better care?