She can't handle a mortgage since I found out she now owes money on her house that was paid off in full when my father died. She took out this money to help her other sibling and that sibling children. She had a steady income coming in when her spouse passed away and spent all of that and took out an additional 100K to help my other siblings. I am ticked off and continues to ask for me to pay for things. We are talking about me paying her from 500 to 2000 additional each month until finding out she was not helping completely for herself but for my other siblings and their kids. Frustrated to know end.