My question is: My mom "IS" in a Nursing home and refuses to cooperate. She will NOT eat in the dining room (takes some meals in her room Only - Refuses to take showers and we have to go in and help them force her to shower (she then swings at you calling you every name in the book - She refuses any activity or therapy - we set her up for eye and ear appointments, she refused to let the doctors even touch her, and after 3 tries they gave up and cancelled the appointments. She just wants to go home. Which is NOT an option. She has Alzheimer's, which has progressed to the point where she can NOT be alone and needs the supportive care. What happens NEXT - if she keeps refusing to cooperate, my sisters and myself have no clue what could happen next.
Desperate for advice