I have been taking care of her since 2003 and would like to move back to Texas to be with my kids and grandbaby, She thinks she can live alone which is impossible even with some home health care. She can't see or hear well and can barely work the microwave. She is now fighting me taking over her bills and hides them from me so everything will be late like it has been. Don't know whether to make her move with me to be in a nursing home or what! My Mother has always been pretty hateful and controlling and so many of my friends have said "How have you done it".