Mom came to live with me about two years ago. I so wanted to spend quality time with her doing the things we loved to do. She has her own apartment and I thought that she would be fine alone and she would be close. She has been hiding her COP condition and her memory loss for a while. She is not taking good care of herself, and can't do what she needs to. She won't admit it. She is somewhat willing for me to do for her, but I work full time and can't do it all. She needs help. She is not as clean as she should be and sometimes forgets her medication. She takes short cuts with her cleaning and doesn't see as well as she should so is getting dirty. When I make suggestions she will disagree. When i just do things she gets upset and feels guilty. She will not hire help. She sleeps all day, doesn't shower as much as she should. I think she is fatiqued all the time. How do I get her help and have her support it?