Instead she has chosen my mentally-ill, unemployed brother who has a history of financial irresponsibility to be attorney of finance, personal care and executor of her estate. She has made it clear she does not trust me and has caused conflict between me and my daughter when she disinherited my daughter and blamed me for it. My brother has tremendous influence over my mother as he gets along with her helped by huge amounts of anti-psychotic medication while I am on guard every single moment with her. The financial adviser suggested his firm take over the administration of her estate. Of course there is a hefty price tag but they are experts in the field and it is a huge complicated estate involving selling a condo, liquidating contents, on and on. I need to let go of my anger and frustration towards my mother and her choices. It's her right to spend her money and trust who ever she chooses. There's no law that says I am entitled to any part of her estate. If my brother squanders her money this is the natural consequence to her choice and has nothing to do with me.