I have to do most of the cleaning and cooking. I also do the grocery shopping and other shopping for non-food shopping also. I drive her to her appointments that are 45miles away. She says she hates cooking and would rather eat out of cans. She is tired alot, because of health problems. She lets her laundry pile up. Thank goodness she doesn't have me do the yard work or shoveling snow in the winter. Most likely because I have fibromyalgia. I also have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.