My mom and dad have been living with my sister, my dad is still there. We tried not telling him but he is too sad and wants to know,what's,wrong. It's heartbreaking to see him go over and over again and again like it,was,the first,time. My mom was,my dads,primary caregiver for last 9 years. He has dementia. He won't shower. Depends and robes are his cloths. Trying not to put him in the no home just dont know what to do.