my mom, 92 has been there one week..today, she threatened to jump off a balcony unless she can leave-they are putting her in memory care. She will hate that more, and it will cost another $800 per month..is private home care any better ? should she be on anti anxiety meds ?? she has always been narcissistic and negative..much more with dementia. Siblings, haven't helped at all (they are a lot like her) until last week, she lived alone but I had to constantly help her with everything..she has NO short term memory.