I still feel guilty for not taking her into my home, even though I am working with a two hour commute both ways, my daughter is autistic and in the process of transitioning to adult services, and my husband has had several operations. She has Parkinson's and auditory hallucinations, and can no longer walk even with a walker. One of the aides made a comment about me not having her home. I don't want to explain my whole life story all the time, but I don't know how I can justify this situation. I feel like I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. Does anyone know how to keep the guilt from overwhelming them and politely tell the aide at the nursing home that it is none of his business?