Parents have given thousands to my sister while I was paying their mortgage. Now dad is gone, my mother lives with me and my family but has given my sister $20,000 in 1.5 years. She gives us nothing. I paid their mortgage to the tune of $32,000. They repaid me when they sold their house and moved in with me for a few weeks while they looked for a place to live. They never looked. Dad died 4 months later. She just sits on the couch all day, every day. She is 86. She had $70,000 saved in Oct of 2015. She gets $2200 a month in SS. The savings account, I just discovered is down to $47,000. I don't want or need her money. My sister desperately needs the money. I told her the other day that she needs to move in with my sister. She acted like I said nothing. I cannot justify to my family having her here when she is just giving money to my sister, spending money on expensive catalog items, giving hundreds away to charity, etc, etc.