She's 98, has afib, high blood pressure. Dentist no good. Mom is very stubborn, won't believe the Dentist. Called her Cardio Doctor, he said moderate sedation could put her at risk at her age. Mom is very difficult to deal with and I'm very frustrated. I also feel she's too old for a root canal and probably won't sit that long as well. She's in an ALF and is probably healthier than most. My brother lives about 4 hrs away and I would like for him to handle this situation. I'm the only one that lives close by and we both have POA. He just tells me I'm doing a great job, but right now I don't want to handle Mom's problem. My brother visits her about 2x a year. Any suggestions.