I sleep in a bed in the room with her now, but if we get the hospital bed there won't be room for my bed. I think she is afraid something might happen to her if I'm not in the room with her and if she called me I might not hear her. I told her we could get a baby monitor and put in her room so I could hear her if she needed me. She still refuses to get the hospital bed. I think it would really help her back as she stays in that recliner day and night. Does anyone else have to deal with someone so stubborn? I have to fight with her about everything (meds. etc.) .