Mom lives alone and likes her space. Originally after dad died, I was her only caregiver. Now, due to increased pain and the need for extra help, she has to have 2 shifts of caregivers every day. She doesn't like having to carry on conversation all day and has changed her mind several times with the agency due to being stressed from this. I told her that if she decides to have all day care (which she just did), she has to accept it and not change her mind again.
I just called to check up on her and she complained again. I told her I don't want to hear it. Am I being mean? What should I say when she complains?