My Mom (87) lives at home. She complains constantly about her, that she does not get along with her. When we, my sister and I, suggest that the lady should stop she is not keen anymore. We both live away from home. However, I took time to go home and observe as what the problem was. My mom is the one in the main to be blamed. She is slave driving her, she makes her do impossible chores. The lady's mandate was to give her care and attend to her needs but also keep the house clean, her space,clean as well. Now she is being treated as a cleaner by her and my brothers who partially live at home. They sleep at their homes but come during the day. When my sister intervene in the lady's favour, they, herself and they becomes resentful. This is causing a division between us siblings.