She'll say she's getting a cold. She said she doesn't need help in bathing, yet she does not do it. She'll say there is sand in her water and ask if we can feel it? Of course there isn't any. I've offered her to bath at my home, she said I also have sand. I've told her I'd call the Water Dept, which her reply is that she has called. When I ask what they said, she has no answer. I insist let me call and find out if there is work order for her home. Then she'll flat out say I'm not bathing. She has a chair and hand assist attached to her tub, but she won't bath.