I don't know what to do anymore. I know she is angry with her circumstances (physical pain), and she is majorly depressed (on meds and has been for years for this), but everytime I turn around, she is mad at me and tells me I'm no daughter and that she would never have treated her mother the way I treat her. I am an only child, I have 7-year-old triplets, a full-time job, and a less-than-supportive husband. I am also in counseling myself. I am suffering, physically and mentally, from my emotions and situation, but I can't talk to my mother. She won't listen, so I just tell her I can't talk right now (when on the phone), which makes her even madder. I don't go over there, as often, because of the gloom and doom, and my emotional state. She also lashes out at my dad, who I think is depressed, as well. Advice??