"Mom's never been away from me. Sis conned her into moving with her & won't give me the address. Mom wants to see me. How do I report to APS?"
On that same post 11 hrs ago you said:
"Mom didn't move in with her. My sister is mean she comes in my house yelling at my mom. She's bossy yellimg at me what I can't do in my house for example smoke in my home. I think she's jealous of our relationship because she's been gone for 20 years and moved back to our location."
That post was very contradictory. She moved in with sister she didn't move in with sister. At this point...
Its YOUR HOUSE, YOUR RULES. You don't have to let your sister in. You do not have to subject your Mom or yourself to abuse in your own home. If Sis has a key, then change the locks. Call the police if she comes and demands to be let in. Let her complain to the Police and APS. When they investigate, tell them the situation. It may mean you can get a restraining order.
You have no profile. Does Mom have a Dementia? If not and this sister is causing Mom to be frightened, maybe a restraining order can be done. I may check that out any way.
It’s not contradictory. One post says the sister talked the in to moving with her. It doesn’t say mom actually did. The 2nd post says mom never actually moved. I nearly called out the contradiction but after re-reading, I realized the OPs mom was talked in to doing something but never actually followed through with it.
So why do you let her in then? And please stick to one post. You previously posted about this on November and you just replied to that post. No need to have 2 posts going and it causes confusion for the responders.
You have a simple problem with a simple solution. Keep the door locked and don’t answer when your sister knocks. If she won’t go away, call the police.
"Mom's never been away from me. Sis conned her into moving with her & won't give me the address. Mom wants to see me. How do I report to APS?"
On that same post 11 hrs ago you said:
"Mom didn't move in with her. My sister is mean she comes in my house yelling at my mom. She's bossy yellimg at me what I can't do in my house for example smoke in my home. I think she's jealous of our relationship because she's been gone for 20 years and moved back to our location."
That post was very contradictory. She moved in with sister she didn't move in with sister. At this point...
Its YOUR HOUSE, YOUR RULES. You don't have to let your sister in. You do not have to subject your Mom or yourself to abuse in your own home. If Sis has a key, then change the locks. Call the police if she comes and demands to be let in. Let her complain to the Police and APS. When they investigate, tell them the situation. It may mean you can get a restraining order.
You have no profile. Does Mom have a Dementia? If not and this sister is causing Mom to be frightened, maybe a restraining order can be done. I may check that out any way.
Your other post says that your mom lives with her.
Which posting is correct? You stated something about your sister not liking your smoking in your home.
Can you clarify please?
Is your mom is back with you and your sister is complaining about smoke?
Why doesn’t your mom want to see your sister?
Obviously, you and your sister are not on friendly terms. Is mom caught in the middle of your feud?
You have a simple problem with a simple solution. Keep the door locked and don’t answer when your sister knocks. If she won’t go away, call the police.