We have tried to talk to her about this, but she acts like there is no problem. She says she doesn't want to be treated like an old lady, but she seems to have trouble with normal tasks. Her house is quite a mess and nobody wants to visit there. I thought about calling the board of health, but my husband won't allow it (he helps mom with bill paying and other paperwork since she loses and forgets things easily). He is worried about offending her, i think. As you can see, this matter (as well as residual issues) keeps me up at night.