She's secretive about her money also. I'm on her account. I'm on her bank account, but she doesn't want me doing anything with it. She let me know that she thought she was paying my electric bill. I had to print out her bills and MINE and take them to her so she could line them up with her bank statements. She says things that are rude, she hasn't talked to my sister in over 2 years. My brother wont even come to see her but once a year. I could go on about how she will only associate with people who meet her criteria, who look just right, dress just right, etc. Seriously, are all old people mean?