Legally blind, diabetic and nearly immobile. She is fine but can't do all what it takes. He is a big man and she bought lift chairs to get him up but he barely moves from one room to another. She has to get in the shower to bathe him and he also has tremors so sever that she has to feed him. We can't find where to turn. She is healthy and doesn't want to leave their home but this is really taking a toll. She's not strong enough to manhandle him like needs be done to get him up.. We need someone to come and help a few days a week. To bathe him and help him do his PT. Just anything to give mom a break. I'm concerned this is going to destroy her health. Also she keeps saying they could never afford assisted living and she doesn't need it but he desperately needs it. I would think insurance would help with all of his issues but I can't even figure out where to start. Any advise would really be appreciated!