Mom has dementia. She currently has a public health nurse fill her med tray every 2 weeks. She has a homemaker 2x/wk. She lets her leave early and doesn't let her do all she can do for her. Adult protective services wants her to have more care in the home. I have rheumatoid arthritis and live 100 miles away. My sick brother who was living with her recently died. I'm working w her new PCP to help medically document her symptoms. What can I do?