Mom (97) still at home with me 24/7. I knew this could get harder but never imagined the incontinence getting so bad. l have tried up to three depends or assurance at night. I make sure she gets to the toilet right before retiring to bed. Lately she won't get out of bed to go the toilet...this is starting to occur in the day now, the constant reminding.she is so aware of other things, but the need to toilet herself isn't working.
Also meals are an issue now. I break up her calories, give her what she wants/needs but it's becoming a battle.
Any suggestions would be a blessing.♥