We took her out for lunch. When we took her back to the home she asked my sister why I have to come all the time.This hurt my feelings, but I don't put up with my mom trying to manipulate me, but my sister is too soft. She has tantrums when we take her out until she gets her food, too much for one to handle, that's why we go together. She also has multiple myeloma and were afraid she may fall and break something. She's never happy, just wants to come and live with us. She's been mentally abusive our whole lives and we refuse to take her home. I dread going to see her sometimes because of her mood,it's depressing.