She is 81, poor mobility (very slow) so she can't make it to the bathroom in time. She uses all the necessary products. How can you tell if they are being "lazy" (as stated by a DCW at her facility) or if she really can't sense if she has to go, and then can't make it in time. Medication is not an option because it worsens the dementia. Any ideas or suggestions? Any help would be appreciated.