After Dad died Mom was too unsteady on her feet and forgetful to continue living at home. The family could not care for her around the clock every day. Now she is in assisted living. She complains about me "getting rid of her" so I do not have to be bothered. She complains about the food, the stupid activities, how staff talk to her, following a meal schedule, aides that do not know anything etc. Mom continually says she wants to give up and die, and that I would like it if she did. There isn't anything I can say or do that really pleases her. I have power of attorney and take care of her health concerns as well. She is wearing me down emotionally and physically.