She has severe cognitive issues and radiation colitis, bowel incontinence which holds her back from certain activities because of bathroom issues.
At times she seems to be adjusting and when asked to join a activity, etc. she does and enjoys it. Then, she sometimes says that she does not like this type of living and does not want to be bothered to do all the things they want her to do. She says she wants to buy a car so she can go buy a house and get out of there. She said she needs a place with a bathtub and hates living just out of a bedroom. She will not take a shower and only does sponge baths. She will not wear diapers or pads for the incontinence and the laundry is overwhelming. HELP does anyone have these issues or any good advice?