Dad died on 1/2/20. And it was hard for us all. I was in the room with him and I heard his b last breath but it didn’t register with me and mom and I both missed holding his hand and helping him cross over. Mom's dr supposedly doubled her dose of Prozac and she’s persuaded him to take her off of it now. Against my advice. ( I’m 56 and Prozac has made it possible for us to have a real relationship for the first time in my life)
Here is my concern. Mom keeps hearing dad call to her. I know it’s the grieving and we do talk about it but now she is claiming to hear me call out to her. Yes I know what you're going to say- she is petrified of being alone. And you're right. She told me that when she heard me call out the door to her bedroom flew open like never before. It frightened her. I want her back on some type of antidepressant but she refuses and reminds me that I’m not a doctor.
Mom lives in a age restricted community and I’m a single parent of a 16 year old, so living with her is not an option. I don’t know how to help her and I promised dad she would b ok. But she’s not ok she is just pretending. With this Corona I’m afraid she is going to fade fast. Any advice?