don't have any real support from 2 brothers, jumped in without thinking it through,feels like I'm causing more trouble, I have decided to go to school to become a MA not sure if that is feasible with all that is going on with my mom she wants to do everything herself and my brothers think I am not really serious or just complaining and or plain lazy. The reality is I am living in her home and working my butt off with no help because the one brother keeps saying "you brought her home and said you would be able to take care of it" yet still doesn't seem to want to pitch in to help. Yes I was reacting to my moms constant desire to go home where she thought she would be happier and seems to be worse always complaining and now I need help I can't do it all and my family doesn't see how much work I am doing 24 hours a day. I want to follow my dream to be a caregiver or nurse or some sort. Yet, I am overwhelmed with resentment and guilt from family. Years of my own problems, the effects it had on my siblings and parents are not helping matters. I have grown up a lot since, I am not the same person. Today I am responsible and growing daily. Working hard to spend quality time with my mother and afford to go to school. My source of income right now is MOM. One of my brothers says he won't forgive me and is very judgmental of me and puts me down I am working towards a better life and have no help. What should I do? It' just killing me inside. I am the only girl and the youngest of 4. My dad passed away Jan. 2015. Mom finally showed me emotions and shed tears, expressing her pain and loss. I don't want to be a bad daughter. I want to spend time with my mother and care for her.. Her rules are overbearing no privacy, she wants to control everything!!! What do I do? So many brick walls. Feel like if I don't do something I will be blamed for her unhappiness and if I move It could cause more. Like someone once said. "Damned if I do, and Damned if I don't" ugh!! Seems like I'm walking a tight rope that is about to break.