We feel so horrible for what she is going through. Help! I am depressed, I cry everyday repeatedly. I am trying to be strong but know I have situational depression and have reached out to my primary doc for medication. My appt. is today. I hate seeing my mom going through this. She doesnt want to go and is not ready to leave. We dont want her too either. It is killing my father and I mostly to see her emotional pain. She has been a person who her entire life was caring, giving and selfishless. She always put her family first. Why is it that great people are dealt this horrible end to their lives? I asked for a chaplin to come yesterday through hospice, which he did. My mom wasnt able to handle it so we decided another day. I am not sure I am asking a specific question, but rather just need support. I feel I am on my last thread of emotional sanity and it is almost broken. How does someone/me handle such horrible circumstances by watching your mother, your best friend dying right before your eyes when they are not ready to go? What do I say to her besides I love you and I am so sorry mom?? Please help.