She IS Narcissistic. Now she is putting a guilt trip on me. She does NOT understand that I need time with MY friends, and I then reminded her of when I was younger how she would say "Me and your sister are going to lunch" I would always say "I want to go too!" She would then reply "YOU'RE NOT INVITED!" (that hurt like h***). So, I asked a friend at work last night "In the Spring when the weather is good wuld you like to go on a ride with us?" She said "YES!" Made the big mistake of telling my 79 year old mom who IS very active. She has now acting offended cause she horns in on everything I do. I told her we clean firt then we ride. She said then she will not go cause she doesn't want to clean stalls. I said that's all part of it. Now she is acting all hurt. I don't know what to do here. I will not ride with more than 4 people at time. There is already 4 going. Don't know what to do.