Very annoying! I do intentionally omit things, such as things that aren't relevant and would worry her anxiety, or small things like moving a Christmas gift for someone into the other room after the third day she obsessed about when I was planning to deliver it to the person.
But sometimes I just don't mention an irrelevant, or private, detail of my day such as stopping at the store or going to the library (yes, you read that right, my life is a hotbed of excitement these days).
Even things I legitimately forgot to mention, small details elicit the response, "you never tell me anything!"
I'm really getting irritated and am tired of defending myself. I have no privacy as it is.
She also interrupts me constantly with insistence and urgency that whatever is in front her her is urgent, so I keep getting called away from other things I may be doing. (cords from electronics, wipe of the porch table etc, stuff that really isn't urgent) She also knocks on my door and constantly interrupts me, and it takes awhile to get focused again as a result. I do have a do not disturb sign but it will make her feel bad, although probably not worse than me snapping at her.
I wanted to enjoy some time on the front porch, but every ten minutes or so she's hovering around.
I end up snapping at her and feeling like a horrible person.. Unfortunately I don't have the patience of those more talented at being a 'caregiver.'
Just venting. I"m doing a lot better these days with the resentment coming out. I'm just so SICK of this.