My mom lives with me. Drives a car, has her own finances and independence. Is constantly getting lost and overdrawing her account. But is absolutely unwilling to accept me controlling her spending or independence. She makes up lies and is completely in denial. I give her money and spend lots of time fixing all of the issues she creates. She won’t listen to me! Who can exert influence on her to allow me to control her finances and keep her from getting herself into trouble. I know she won’t stop driving until someone takes her license. But all of it is feeling like too much!! Her neurologist wouldn’t say she has Alzheimer’s but I see her craziness everyday! This middle stage is maddening!