Well, there is more going on with mom and I am tired of everything. My youngest brother (YB), had set up a team meeting to ask about mom coming home. It starts out all ok, then he decides he just thinks she should be leaving...on Friday. It most likely will be against medical advice (AMA).
I do not want to be a part in this. He says she is getting weaker by staying there because PT is done once a day or every 2 days. :(
I can't tell how true her getting weaker is.
She managed to break her hearing aids, one of which she said doesn't fit her. She hates the new hearing aid place and now she wants to go back to the older place which I believe she has said she hated at that time. Of course she will need a hearing test and all that stuff.
It looks like she will need oxygen 24/7 which she didn't want to do before. without oxygen, it read 85, which is really low. it seems she needs it now. which again will mean a portable oxygen concentrator, which if I take her out, I will have to drag along. :(
She is a constant complainer, I think we may have accidentally taught her if she complains enough, she will eventually get her way.
Middle brother (MB) is in Mass General, Boston, he had open heart surgery to replace a valve on Friday. I don't want to get him involved in this mess. Not that he was much physical help anyway. but he did contact Bristol Elders and a few other places. I have done most of the rest of the needed stuff like taking her to appointments and to her knitting group.
I have refused to help YB with this mess. I have already told him at the team meeting, I will not be staying with her so who will?
Is there anything I should be doing?
This is making me crazy. I guess I am venting more than anything else.