She is stubborn, independent and changing before my eyes.
The family consists of her, my husband (only child) and myself.
She lives in an independent apt ($3100 monthly plus $575 extra for med distribution)with assistance with her meds because of her failure to take them properly.
Dr said a diagnosis of Alzheimer's or dementia wouldn't be correct, as at 95 it is memory loss.
She goes to activities alone in her wheelchair and eats good. She loves my husband dearly but is always giving him a guilt trip about something.
She thinks Dr is out to get her by having facility give her the meds.
She doesn't shower anymore or wash her hair. She takes sink side baths. To mention hygiene to her, wow. You can't get a word in. She will talk over you, then call back again to say we don't "build her up enough". That people there like her, that she is popular. She has never had lady friends.
Her memory is such now that she will, for instance... Call numerous times this week accusing husband of taking a stack of business cards from her drawer. And other things.
What else should I expect is coming?
What can I be doing?
Husband has always been afraid to offend her and is not helpful.