She wants to get my Dad, who has dementia, to go to a nursing home because she is tired of his "behavior". I agree he has bad behavior but he has his whole life. Mom has memory deficits and seems to only have very short term memory. The man she fell in love with is 9 years her junior AND has Alzheimers. He's a lovely man but I know nothing about him or his family situation. I am her POA and "mother" now. I'd love any advice on how to navigate this crazy turn of events!