Got her out of NH after breaking her leg twice, being over medicated, doing PT til she got better. NH & staff DR. would have killed her if I left her past 100th Medicare day. I had 24/7 sitters +NH staff but..still, it takes an army to care for one person that is over medicated, dillusional, determined to be unsafe, irrational, argumental, & down rite nasty personality. She wasn't or didn't seem like that til all anethisa & other drugs administerd during & after her surgeries. I thought she was getting better & she is but all deep seeded buried angry stuff she suppressed from past is starting to make me think she's been faking her somewhat pleasant personality &/or like DR. says early demintia that could have been started from drugs. She had been taking care of my Dad (deceased this yr.).So I feel that she snapped. I really need her to stay in AL & since we all realize how she is behaving even with assistance she would be hard to manage even more at home. Her Drs. License expired during these last 12 months & she hopes to regain it @ 88yrs. old & that I would let her drive. No way..her reactions, her arthritis in her hands, she's using a wheelchair & just started using a rollator. It's her right leg she broke twice within 2 months time & will she be able to pick up & put wheelchair or rollator in her van & get in the vehicle & then, get either piece of equipment out without assistance? She has made some of the sitters upset, cry & quit so that leaves me in a bind to care for her & find replacement help so I can go home..but don't worry bout me she says--I can take care of myself. So this past week so far, she told off one of her dear old friends, my brother & his wife came to visit & left for a few days & saw how she manipulates & can turn on emotions & tears like a faucet. I told her I was hoping to get my grandkids & I'm going home. So I did leave after her New Years party @ AL, so I'm home enjoying being home with my husband & grand boys. Hope ya'll have a great Happy New Year & I'll get divine guidance!