It is very high end and has a lot of services. She is wearing my brother and sister down. Calling them in the middle of the night for minor emergencies that staff can take care of. Right now we believe it is her fear more than anything but seems to only want family members. They have tried to reason with her ...how they want to help, but they cannot in reality be at her beck and call 24-7. They have spouses, work and children. They are torn between being loyal to mom in her waning years and balance in their lives. Cognitively she seems ok. How do we communicate with her?