Not thrilled to be there, but not asking to go home either. My brother whom she lived with is there EVERY DAY. Which all the rest of us thing is not healhy for anyone. The nurse called to make me aware of this. I asked if he was interfering with her doing activities. She said no but indicated it was not the best idea. He is saying he want to take her on long day trips and weekend trips?? Denial? yes, poor judgement even bigger yes. This is his problem not mom's. I am MPOA and any outing must be approved by me..
Not going over so well with all the family members. there will be a hug celebration at a brother's house 2 2/2 hours away, then they thought she could spend the night and are annoyed w me and questioning my decision. I have the support of the nurse and a brother in Balto., It was agreed if she spent the night she would come back and have to adjust all over again. She actually chimed it it would be confusing and she wanted to be "home" at night.. I have told them all putting mom in a situation with at least thirty members including lots of running screaming kids with be detimental to her. She has difficulty in a restaurant and gets overstimulated. I think they want her to be there and feel like nothing has changed, but everything has changed. They think I am being unreasonable and negative. We will go through this same battle at christmas, where I am the bad guy. Any other "bad guy" MPOAs ou there that can relate?