Yesterday she complained that her iron is gone (she hasn't had it in 2 years), and all her pots & pans are missing (I have them, but she hasn't had them for 2 yrs.) I understand about "therapeutic fibbing" which I've tried and am not very good at doing it because it goes against my reasoning. It doesn't matter, she just repeats it. She wants to complain to management...again. I really don't know what to say to her or how to accept her accusations against staff. She is in a wonderful place with very sincere staff, and it disturbs me very much that she would accuse them of stealing from her. She has no stove or cooking abilities so of course she wouldn't have pots and pans, but there is no logic in her mind. Should I just tell her I have these missing things? I need help knowing how to deal with fabricated stories.