The house is getting to be to much for her and she wants us to move out there and live in the house and she'll get an apartment. My husband probably won't be able to transfer his job to Ar. and my mother refuses to relocate. I think she would be wise to sell her home, their is a beautiful assisted living center just miles from where she lives. How to I bring this up with her in a caring way? She has given me the house in her will and wants so badly for us to move there now. She is becoming depressed. There are no relatives near her all live in Az. or Ca. so she is alone. If I tried to get home care for her she would still have to deal with her house, repairs etc. This is causing me so much stress and I want so much to be there for her. Any suggestions would be appreciated. We would be able to put her things in storage and hope the house sells. What to do.