My mom went into assisted living in December after years of not properly caring for herself (mostly hygiene). She has never been a caring, loving mother. She has always told us she wishes we were never born,etc. So her living with one of us is not an option. Ever since finding out she has aUTI she is meaner than usual. She refuses the meds (she currently is on no medication at all). She has always had some mental health issues but has never been formally diagnosed (she hates doctors). Anyway is there anyway to make her take the meds? AL says they can't make her.