It’s been very hard on me, she chooses not to be involved in anything outside the home, she gives me much aditude, I suffer from multiple health problems. I try not to let her know because all I will hear is are you ok, what can I do and it gets me upset inside. She doesn’t want to go to family and I’ve tried to tell her it will be good for us to take a break. Then it reverses, oh so you want me out, she does the negative card. She’s nasty with me and expects so much, what can I do? She will be going to family in four weeks.