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He and a different sister found paper she bought plot for me when I died by them. They secretly sold the plot out of jealousy. Mom's wishes were to be buried by me and dad. Are the siblings culpable? I only want to honor mom's wishes. Now I have no plot. Is what they did legal? It shows no respect for our parents.

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What is “LoLa for HC”? I’m afraid I am not understanding your abbreviations. What is “d’s pelvis”? I don’t think the doctors would have given her mind-altering drugs based on what your sister said she should be taking.. Do you think she fell because she was on drugs? He told “the long” she can’t leave? Is he in charge of her money only? Then he has no say in what happens to her in the facility.

In any case, you need to contact your mother’s attorney that you said previously that she had. If they don’t already know what’s going on with Mom, you need to fill them in. If yiur brother and sister and the “they” you write about are doing anything illegal, the attorney can arrange to bring charges.
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This brother left her there be put her money down and have his own version of care.He missed two meds brought limited clothing doesn't know what she will eat ignored 3 diagnosis
Said she could not contact me he placed her in danger guardian only claims he bulked her also


i could not take her to post surgical appointment because he told the long she can't leave he jeopardized her recovery
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Sister Lisa is guardian she divided everything among remaining 6 I am LoLA for Hc brother only handled her money sister out of state suggested just leaving her in SO
She also suggested drugs to alter her state of mind she fell d's pelvis landed in hospital then rehab I took her home from rehab now she has healed walks etc they sold everythiny they stole including my plot she wants nothing to do with them guardian needs to be removed cruelty prosecuted
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A burial plot can only be sold by the owner of the plot or by the POA for the owner of the plot (say to provide funds for care). You say there is now a guardian. Guardians are court appointed. Do you mean that the guardian was appointed when your brother dropped your mother off at a care facility? I am afraid I am very confused by all of this. IF there is no communication within a family then it is really difficult to communicate find out exactly what is happening. This may need to be put in the hands of an Elder Care Attorney just to find out what has been done, by whom and under what authority. If your mother is currently in care, I would say it is time to go to the care facility. Question ONE) Who placed your mother in the care facility? Question TWO) Who has power of attorney or court appointed guardianship over her. Then find out if the facility can facilitate a meeting between concerned relations and that guardian to answer questions. I am afraid that the cemetery plot is last on my list of concerns here.
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Ahmijoy Jun 2019
You’re not the only one who’s confused. 🤔 same here.
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Placement guardian too weak to force her in so this bro dropped her off never said anything to me her is violent
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Many children have title i am PLZ for her healthcare The cemetery was never consulted this was a move based on jealousy.they removed all he things from her home for their children she now has an elder attorney
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Ahmijoy Jun 2019
What is “PLZ”. Did she buy burial plots for everyone or just you? Was just your name on the deed to your individual plot? If they sold the plot I believe the cemetery would have had to have been consulted by the new owner for title transfer. They have to be made aware of who owns the plots in their cemetery.

Your brother abandoned her at the door to the facility and they took her in without any papers signed, guarantee of payment or anything? What’s a “placement guardian” and why would she be “forced in” a facility? Who is violent? Mom or brother? Who does the facility contact if there is an issue? Who pays for her care?
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If your name was on the deed to the plot what they did was illegal and the cemetery is at fault. If the deed was in Moms or Dads name, then u may have a problem. If it was in ur name, I would complain to the cementery office. A plot can't be sold unless they are involved. There usually is a transfer fee.

Now guardian. How was brother able to place Mom when there is a guardian. Do u mean guardian or POA. Two different things. Mom needed to assign a POA and only she can revolk and reassign someone. A guardian is appointed by the Court. A lawyer is involved, a hearing to find the person incompetent and then the Judge appoints the guardian. The guardian is responsible for much more than a POA and is accountable to the state. If this is what u mean, u need to go to the court and tell them guardian is not doing their job.
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I’m a little confused, but if Mom owned the plot, her name was on the deed and brother and sister’s weren’t, they could not sell the plot unless they have Power of Attorney.

Without the help of an attorney, you can’t do anything but escalate the family war. If you have any paperwork at all from Mom that she bought this plot for you, bring it to the attorney’s office. You can also contact the cemetery and ask them if they have copies of this paperwork.
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