My mother has a caregiver for 12 hrs a day, prior to this recent change it was me, with working a full time job and a family. After 3 years I had lost who I was, I myself became depressed and demanded with my sibling there needs to be a change. My Mom even prior to the caregiver has been nasty, cries and is confused. She is on depression and anxiety meds, but I truly don't think anything she's on will make a difference. She has been an unhappy person for a long time. She had a great life, good husband and kids, but to hear her story it was a horrible life and she blames us her kids for everything. I guess I need some suggestions on what to do, should she be in an Assisted Living, which I know she will refuse and hate, but if her health keeps going downhill she cannot afford 24 hr care. Please any suggestions would be much appreciated.