She doesn't respond to my Hello's or Goodbye's. When I talk she ignores me and/or when I mention details about moms meds or doctor appts she continues to text on phone while im talking to her. Instead of asking her to put it down I just say I'll wait till your done. My mother says she likes her and I desperatly need the help but I dont feel comfortable being in my home when she is here! I found out yesterday my mom didn't take her meds..I asked the Caregiver why she didn't tell me and she said she documented it in the agency notes. Which is good but I need to be updated as her primary caregiver. Just wondering if someone else has had this problem. Where the Caregiver is friendly with the client but not the family? And how did you deal with it? Thanks!
Also I'm hardly here..so I don't lord over her or text/call. Or leave notes..None of that behaviour that would make her resent me. I'm just friendly and caring.