My mother is 75 and I will be 49 not only does she treat me like a 15 year old and constantly calls me to tell me what to do (I have a 30 year old and 2 grandkids) but she constantly gossips between my siblings and other family members about mine and everybody else business even if it's not true. When visiting her home town a couple of weeks ago for church homecoming half the church which were family members didn't even talk to her. The things that she say,are a lot of time not true and simply painful. I hate upsetting her when I tell her to stop but what to you do? Also, she can just be flat out rude when she talks to me. I getting fed up!!!!